Pattern Recognition using ThetaHealing
ThetaHealing is an energy healing modality that focuses on understanding the subconscious mind and the beliefs our subconscious mind holds. Anything and everything that happens in our reality is our creation, whether we like it or not, we have created it subconsciously & consciously.
In this section of the blog, I will be sharing with you all the patterns I’ve discovered thanks to ThetaHealing. This section of the blog will be updated regularly.
Disclaimer-> Cases discussed will be presented in a way to conceal the client’s identity.
Pattern of: REJECTION from in-laws
After a series of relationship failures, a lovely girl (let’s call her Tania) I know realised that every time she would get serious in her (romantic) relationship, the guy’s parents (in-laws) wouldn’t approve. She realised that this was a pattern that needed to be broken because she’d had enough. When she started digging her subconscious mind using the ThetaHealing technique, she had a couple of realizations
1->Her parents’ story was being repeated in her subconscious psyche!
Back in the day, Tania’s father fell in love with her mother but his mother (Tania’s paternal grandmother) wouldn’t approve of their relationship. The two were forced to break up. This was obviously heartbreaking for Tania’s mother but she somehow managed to move on. She decided to get married to another man which is when Tania’s father realised how deeply he loved Tania’s Mom and he went against his mother’s will, eloped and married his lady love aka Tania’s Mom. Overtime, Tania’s grandmother ‘kind of’ got over it and made peace with their relationship. As a result of this, what happened was, Tania started forming beliefs that -
‘I will know that a man truly loves me only if he bypasses his parent’s will and chooses me, just like my Daddy’
‘Men need to prove their love to me’
‘My parents have an epic love story and I will too…’
Growing up hearing their story, she somewhere wanted to have a similar one for herself. This is mostly subconscious and happens as a result of unconscious loyalty to our parents. We grow up looking at our parents as role models, we seek their validation and approval and secretly deep down wish to be like them. This is how many of us wish to re-create their story in our lives too.
The day Tania realised this pattern, she challenged it and decided to change this in her subconscious mind using ThetaHealing.
But there’s another twist to Tania’s story.
Realization number 2->
Growing up, she also heard her loving grandmother tell her that it’s a good sign when a guy listens to his parents. Her grandmother highly regarded men who would pay heed to their parent’s approval. Grandmother was obviously subliminaly sharing her hurt from the past by ssaying that to Tania! Now, Tania wanted to be with a ‘nice guy’ and ended up attracting a series of men who would choose their parents (disapproval of Tania) over Tania! This is because in her head, men who chose parents over the girl were ‘nice’ & highly regarded by her loving grandmother. The moment she had this realisation, she challenged all these beliefs and shifted them.
You see how much beliefs create our reality without us even realising?
Thanks to powerful modalities like ThetaHealing that allow us to realise such patterns and shift them in a jiffy!
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