Soulmate Facts
The fact that you are reading this post implies that you have been or ... ... currently are hounding your soulmate! BUTTTT, do you even know what a soulmate relationship is? Do we have one soulmate or many? What are the chances that we will marry our soulmate? What are the chances that we will even experience a soulmate relationship in this lifetime? How is soulmate different from a life partner?
Gosh! So much to talk about and so many many myths to bust.
Disclaimer: Before I met my most divine compatible soulmate, my husband, Raj, I had literally gone cuckoo cuckoo and read a gazillion research articles and spiritual books that spoke about soulmates ... and you know what, they all say pretty much the same thing (which is the ultimate truth). I, however found the most impactful understanding and answers from these gems-
Mrs. Khorsheed Bhavnagiri who wrote the book LAWS OF THE SPIRIT WORLD
and
Vianna Stibal, founder of ThetaHealing.
Soulmate Facts that need to viral today (because there’s so much misinformation out there):
There's no such thing as 'A Soulmate'! Ha! How's that for a revelation? Well, as you ascend spiritually, you will understand that these are mere terms we use to make ourselves understand various aspects of our spiritual journey as humans on Earth.
So if there's no soul mate then what? Well, my darling readers, the actual term is group souls or soul families. These are people whose spirits we recognise from a a far away time. Soul families or group souls choose to be born around the same time to help each other grow spiritually and get closer to our beloved Creator.
This means we have multiple soul mates. Yikes! So we when we feel a deep sense of connection with a person, they can be either a soulMATE or a soulFAMILY MEMBER.
With a soulFAMILY member, there’s a deep connection, understanding, love and concern but a rather cold sexual chemistry; because they’re soul family.
Having said that, a lot of us could be married to our soul family member and it can mean that we are doing well but sexually it’s not THE MOST HAPPENING RELATIONSHIP and in the grand scheme of things, sexual chemistry is not something that results in a successful relationship. It is however an important part. So don’t fret if your sexual chemistry with your partner isn’t 10/10, if there’s a sense of deep understanding, connection, love and respect, your’e golden.
When manifesting soulmates, we must manifest our divine compatible soulmate. This is because we have many soulmates and most of them aren’t compatible with us. This means, there’s friction, but there’s connection.
Do you want to have friction with your mate?
I hope not.
So, pray for a divine, compatible soulmate with whom there’s a deeper understanding and very little to no friction.
By friction I mean a mismatch in values.
So how does a soulmate connection FEEL LIKE? Some soul mates are compatible with you while some aren't but when you meet them (any soulmate), you will just know that you know them from before. They happen to have a magnetic pull that makes your heart beat faster. It's a just a very different feeling every single time they are around. So me feel a strong sense of safety and security that ALL IS WELL, ALL IS GOOD (I felt that when I met my Raj, my soulmate for the first time); some people feel butterflies or excitement when they meet their soulmate. So it’s different for everyone but the common element is
a feeling of knowing this person from before.
The soul mates some of us end up marrying kind of lose this effect on us as we are with them day in and day out. Why? Well, simply because we get used to their energy. So, ensure that once you manifest your soulmate, both you and your partner are always working towards keeping the SPARK in the relationship alive by learning new things, growing on a personal & spiritual level, going out on holidays, dinner dates, etc.
Remember, only when you truly love yourself, you are ready for a soulmate. Having said that, not everyone needs to master self love to manifest a soulmate because soulmate union depends upon the divine timing of the Universe. So, if you have not mastered self love and self acceptance, you will not be able to fully receive the love of your soulmate and no matter how amazing your partner is… you will feel something’s amiss and that thing is SELF LOVE, SELF ACCEPTANCE & SELF VALIDATION.
Also, if you don't master self love, self acceptance and self validation, then chances are you may even attract a person who will drag you over the coals to teach you tha very lesson.
FUN FACT ABOUT ME: Before I manifested my soulmate (my husband), I had already mastered self love and self validation. My ego was well balanced and I thought highly of myself and knew how powerful and capable I am. When I met Raj, he only mirrored all of these things but it didn’t flatter me because I knew that already. What I felt was…
“Ahhh, so finally he sees me for how amazing I am. He’s a nice guy, I want to keep seeing him before I say YES.”
{Psssst… I say this with tons of humility and self love and not flattery.}
Every time you pray for a soulmate, please please ask for THE MOST COMPATIBLE soulmate.
Never pray to attract someone "just like you"! That's a twin flame btw! A twin flame is someone who's just like you, similar interests, priorities in life, temperament, etc. We need partners who compliment our personality and have same value system. With twin flames, this is barely ever the case. Instagram is flooded with misinformation on attracting twin flames. I implore you to never go on that route. With a twin flame, you feel a lot a lot a lot of attraction but there’s just too much friction and that relationship eventually ends in a break-up.
Please know that no relationship on this Earth completes us! We are complete. We are whole. A relationship (any good one) just helps us become the best version of ourselves.
When you do find your soulmate, please don't try to change them... you've attracted them for who they are and they are right for you just the way they are. But of course, you must allow them to grow and change in flow with their passions and desires!
Some people are very very "giving"! These kind of people keep giving out love, attention, importance, time and energy without being open to receiving anything in return. They feel it's a very noble thing to do... when in actuality, it's NOT! If you associate yourself with this personality, then look deeper into your life and the nature of your relationships, you will find your life is full of energy vampires (folks who are self seeking, egoistic and negative).
There's a giant good news for you! You, btw, have more than one compatible soulmate! Yikes!
You must love yourself unconditionally before calling out for your (compatible) soulmate. Since you happen to have more than one, depending on the state you are at, you will attract a partner of the same frequency. Now doesn't that push you to be THE BEST VERSION of yourself?
The best way to be the best version of yourself is through healing. What I mean by that is, keeping your belief system CLEAN & TIDY. This in turn means working on eradicating negative beliefs. We attract people in our life on the basis of our belief system. If you’re belief system is flooded with negative beliefs that are limiting you, you will attract a similar person who sits in resonance of those beliefs.
Example: If you’re fearful or pessimistic, the partner you attract would be the same. But just in case, you attract a strong & optimistic person, that relationship won’t last because a strong and optimistic person won’t be able to survive around a fearful, pessimistic person.
I urge you to weed out all the negativity that you might have in your life - people, experiences, anger, regrets... JUST LET GO! Give yourself a chance to work with a healer & coach, one-on-one.
Please feel free to contact me on Instagram DM feeding_thy_soul or email me on themavenlifestyle@gmail.com
Please don't ask for a perfect soulmate as that person could be way too perfect for you. Always pray to have a compatible partner. This comaptible soulmate will gel well with you.
Sometimes, in fact most of the times, our (compatible or twin or soul family members) soulmates are our best friends, parent(s), siblings, teacher, mentor. So they’re already existing in our lives, we may not have fully recognised them.
I hope this post helped you understand the meaning and value of soulmates better.
Loads of love & light,
Sia (Life Coach, Hormone Health Coach, Spiritual Coach, Energy Healer & Teacher, Tarot Card Reader & Teacher, Switch Word & Energy Circles Practitioner, Drawing, Signature & Handwriting Analyst)
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