Back in 2020, I worked with a client who was having major issues in her marriage. They were very happily married for around 10 years.They created a beautiful home together, both husband and wife thriving at work and had a 7 year old son & a 4 year old son who they loved beyond all measures. But one week, “out of the blue” my client (let’s call her Pri and let’s call her husband Phil) started feeling that Phil was cheating on her. Now, the interesting thing is that Pri knew how rock solid their relationship was consciously, but on the subconscious level something was bothering her non-stop.
Repeated thoughts of Phil cheating on her took over her rational side and she started questioning him, doubting him, rattling him to confess something he had not even done, blaming him and what not! She not just felt conflicted, but also very very confused. She felt the need to check his phone and kept herself up at night thinking and re-thinking what triggered this cascade of insecure thoughts. After 1 week of this suffering, which she refers to as ‘it felt like 1 year’, she got in touch with me through a friend of hers who was my long standing client. I understood her whole story, and asked her about her relationship with Phil and her boys.
As a Thetahealer, we are supposed to connect to the Creator (creative energy of this Universe) and intuitively guide our sessions. The moment Pri was done telling me her story, I started asking her about both her conceptions, pregnancies and BAM, slap bang in the middle of one of her statements, I asked Pri to tell me about her parent’s relationship. As healers, we feel intuitively guided to ask ‘certain kinds of questions’. This Q&A round, which we healers call DIGGING THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, went on for a good 45 minutes post which we realised that …
When Pri was 7(same age as her first born, interestingly), there was a huge falling out between her parents with accusations of cheating at the epicentre. Her father was not comfortable with Pri’s mom getting close to one of her (guy) friend who was cheating on his partner with another woman. Pri’s father felt that if his wife (Pri’s Mom) is supporting a cheater, she’s partaking in the act of cheating herself. Over the months, Pri’s parent’s spat got sorted to an extent but left a dent in Pri’s subconscious mind. This dent was so deeply ingrained at such a tender age that Pri even (kind of) forgot about it. All these years later, then, when Pri’s first born son turned 7, all those pent up feelings (from age 7) came springing up fully leaving Pri aghast. My session with Pri ran for another 45 minutes in which Pri could now stop beating herself up for her insecure thoughts and found many answers, got the resolution which started putting her back at peace again. It was a long wound session which I have simplified for you readers to make understand the strength of healing and the power of investing in decoding the subconscious mind!
I share this example with you to make you understand that
1->Sometimes, you feel certain feelings and you don’t know where they are coming from, which is when it is best for you to OUTSOURCE that aspect of our life.
As Healers, we are thoroughly trained to wear the detective’s hat to decode the patterns of our life. We work day in and day out to study and understand the mind and how (even) genetics can play a role in the way we feel, act and react.
If something is bothering,
YOU MUST REACH OUT.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SUFFER AND DO IT ALL YOURSELF!
Consider yourself lucky that there are trained professionals out there who can help you unlike 20/30 years ago when our parents/grandparents needed this and there was no one plus all of this was taboo.
2-> If understanding yourself, your mind or human psychology and behaviour in general is something that piques your interest, then you MUST MUST MUST, ABSOLUTELY MUST learn ThetaHealing as it will empower you in ways you cannot even imagine.
Feel free to reach out to me, if you have any questions. You can either send me direct message on Instagram (the_maven_lifestyle) or email me at themavenlifestyle@gmail.com
Love & Gratitude,
Sia (Aakansha)
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